This is my commentary on the Lindsay Clancy case and its implications across American approaches to maternal health and wellbeing, the responsibility of men, and the failures of our medical and criminal justice systems.

You haven't lost yourself. You've been doing an enormous amount of invisible, undervalued work — often while managing a brain that the world wasn't designed for — in circumstances that would exhaust anyone. That's not a failure. That's just where you are right now. And where you are right now is a perfectly good place to start.